iOS 4.hell ??

Ok, is it just me, or has the iOS 4 train taken us down a bad path?  I have an iPhone 4, and within the 4.x updates it really seems like Apple has taken us back to DOS.  I have to reboot my iPhone 4 about once a day...just like a good old Windows box.  Now don't get me wrong, I may not be a typical user?  To me the iPhone is a computer.  I run apps.  Lots of them, probably 10-15 a day.  But it seems like I should be able to do that...right?  Anyone else having problems?